I am tired of being silenced by fear; especially since in the past few days I have had the energy to thoroughly research the defamation act of the UK. I was surprised to discover that not many claims go to court; because the courts will not entertain something unless two major things have happened to the plaintiff e.g. loss of earnings (not applicable, they are retired and won’t be working in the future) and secondly, they have experienced physical harm by a third party due to claims. (Again not applicable and if it is, it needs to be proven).
If I can prove what I have said is true about the plaintiff then it will be thrown out of court.
UK laws value freedom of speech and freedom of expression, they take a dim view of people trying to silence others – in fact, I would be well into my right to take them to court for breach of my human rights.
Not only this can I pull up various character references from a number of people who have experienced what my mother can be like; both familial and professional.
My own character reference has often been described by others, even by those that still support my mother as being very nervous and quiet, good and old fashioned, if somewhat spooky at times. The worse thing I have ever done was run away and scared my mother as it was sudden and frequent between the ages of 20 and 27. Quite a lot of the control, isolation and abuse even went into my adulthood; she affected my careers, studies, whatever I wanted to do. All the drop outs were primarily caused by my mother; I had to get away to get a life, basically.
My mother would be described by a lot of people as a fun person with an intimidating air, someone who is hard to talk to and hard to negotiate with, but someone reliable in a crisis; though confrontational.
The sheer cost of taking this to court will affect both sides and both sides are likely to be in debt for a very long time, because the cost of a claim like this is astronomical, from what I have learned. It is not like a small claims court. As far as I am aware you cannot get legal aid for this.
Both society and courts have a dim view on people who try to silence victims and try to stop freedom of speech.
If I were to earn money from what I am saying and I do sell my books and art and have enough money to make being sued worthwhile to the plaintiff; the world also takes a dim view of people trying to pocket other people’s earnings; when they lose the court case – and they will! (Because the evidence is against them) it can actually affect the reputation and earnings of the plaintiff – because as far as I am aware, the plaintiff will not be my mother, but my brother! As far as I am aware, he cannot sue for defamation unless my mother agrees, because according to the courts, she is the victim of these claims not him. It would be a very unwise thing to partake in for him and his future.
I am also puzzled by the fact that, if what I am saying is supposedly untrue and hurts my mother to read and hear of such things, why does she claim to me on Facebook that both she and my brother and my dad watches my blog like a hawk? Even subscribed to do so, so they don’t miss anything I may have said about them?
Because the fact of the matter is, my mother cannot help herself! She is and always will be a control freak, who just wants to intimidate me even from afar. With scare tactics such as “We are watching you”, “We will ruin you before you even get started”, “We will do… whatever”.
It worked for a time, but I am wise to the world now and its ways and to be honest, what they are saying and trying to do is utterly ridiculous, child’s play really. A bully’s tactics to control and entice fear into those they presume to be emotionally weak or what they presume still are emotionally weak people. It doesn’t rub anymore.
My claims are true and many things I can prove, can they say the same?
Thanks for reading this guys; I look forwards to my human right of the freedom of speech in the future and for you all to get to know me a lot better!