The world is a confusing place.
Everyone wants acceptance and yet they all criticise others.
Everyone wants peace of mind and yet they will still hold grudges and set themselves up for failure or arguments.
Some people want a better life, yet instead of trying to find a way to make their lives better they would rather end it instead.
It is easier to hate than to love for many.
It is easier to ignore than to question.
Everybody wants a better world but no one is ready for the effort and strife to make it better.
A single person has a lot of power, yet they choose not to use it, because they have no time, energy, health, they have other commitments – so they sit and watch TV or play online games for three hours without fail every evening; instead of doing something constructive that will either improve their lives, the lives of their family members, a sad friend or their environment, it is strange, but true. They would rather poison their bodies with junk food, alcohol and drugs, than spend that extra fifteen minutes in the kitchen to make something healthier for them, something that will prolong their life and give them better mobility or health.
A lot of people would rather not see that they are doing this because then that would mean that they have admitted to being a failure in some way; they can’t pass the buck, they can’t blame anyone but themselves if they realise and admit it. People can’t stand being wrong or thinking that they are more ignorant than they know.
People would rather walk out in difficult situations rather than solve them, they would rather break up or divorce someone than work it out – because of the time and energy and self-satisfaction factor. If you want a relationship you need to look first at how much you get along with the person in a non-romantic setting, are you good friends? Then you have to question whether or not you both have the same life goals, morals and ethics, then after these things are established and known, you should have a relationship together and once in that relationship it should be easy to focus each other on remaining with each other, supporting each other as friends, working things out like a team – not abandoning ship. If you feel you are a person who cannot be strictly monogamous for goodness sake be honest about it before you let someone get too deep with you – the world is more liberal than you think!
People have got to start becoming more open with the people who are involved in their lives. They have to work together, work things out, they have to get out of the habit of this throw away culture – because people are treating other people like material possessions too much – this will eventually lead to us all losing our humanity, it is bad enough as it is with the millennial generations mobile device addiction, let alone allowing ourselves to continue how we’ve always been.
Humanity needs to concentrate very deeply on their psychology, on the way that they think, how they handle things. No more should people just simply walk away when the going gets tough, because that will never solve anything and will only poison your spiritual environment more and more, attracting more negativity to you.
We are probably the loneliest generations ever known to human earth. More and more we are cutting ourselves off from others. It was said once that the average human was close to 120 people at all times with around 1000 known acquaintances – but recently that figure has dropped to a contemporary socialite having only 26 close contacts and around 300 acquaintances – online people you have never met do not count – if it did, I would be extremely gregarious!
Fifty years ago it would be normal if a friend knew you were sick and lived in the same street, to come and visit you and make sure you didn’t need any help and would make a fuss about helping you even if you didn’t want it – these days, they could care less. So long as visit and visiting is exactly 50/50 split, like tennis, taking turns one after the other, they couldn’t be bothered to come and see how you are – even family life is becoming like this. I have never liked the concept of a nuclear family, I always wanted to have a lot of children, but ill-health dictated that to me as well. I do not like it, I would love nothing better than to have around five children and a little organic smallholding in a suburban place somewhere as I can’t do strict rural again.
I’m really very lucky at growing vegetables in particular, they seem to yield more than average for their type and are always bigger than expected, I have often been told I should attend vegetable shows, but I would feel silly doing that, sometimes people in those contests get a bit daft. Now if I was to show anything, it would be dogs and guinea pigs, I would love to do that eventually.
The purpose of this post and like many more to come is to broaden your mind and help you see how you can try to have a better and happier life. I am going to stop writing more to this now as I have noticed I am losing focus and it is 5am when I am writing this on 19th January 2020. I will schedule this for later in the week, because I have a lot of things going on at the moment. I am not yet over the pneumonia though I feel better today, but in the next few days I have several medical appointments to get to as well as an ESA medical and another minor operation (not sure they’d entertain that if they know I have a chest infection, it has been cancelled 6 times before because of serious sinus, throat and chest infections, it takes 6 months each time to get a new appointment).